Feb-May 2011 Mommies

thanks Kaylae, I will read your blog now.
that's exactly the problem - I feel like I have to stay in this marriage to honour my vows and now I am never going to be truely happy in life. My life will always just be average, where my husband can only manage to tell me once a month he loves me (and only if i remind him to say it).

Joli I know about it getting worse after babies. about 4 months ago I suggested therapy as there was talk about trying for a baby and I said no chance until the relationship is stable. And now the baby surprised us and I'm at a loss now...I dont know what to do.

DH replied saying he was drunk last night and admits he was a dick but compared to other people's relationships, ours is good and i shouldnt concentrate on the bad and it seems I am never happy.
he says there are things i do that upset/annoy him but he chooses to ignore it. I'm sorry, but i cant ignore it. if i do that, I am basically accepting that i will never have a fulfilled marriage and wont ever be truely happy and i just cant accept that.

and lots of hugs meags,men are like children and the more you scould them the more they are rebellious.Do not stress however concentrate on your bundle of joy,glad that you had find other means to send the message across.Do not walk away remember you have to honour your vows no matter what.you can also view my blog maybe you may find comfort kaylae-beautyofawoman.blogspot.com

DH is also acting up on me yesterday he could see that I was not feeling well he dumped LG with me and went out till 8:30 and i just looked at him and sent him around like a headless chicken he just didn't know that that was his punishment

Hi Mommies. Good to hear all the news .

Lucy - glad your scan went well.

Shame Emsmom - really hope Em is getting better soon.

Shame Meags. I really do feel for you. I don't want to sound negative, but if things are not right now, it's gonna be worst after the baby arrives. Kids are hard on a marriage. Can you maybe convince him to go for counceling so you guys can get things sorted?? Thinking of you.

I felt so crappy last night. This pregnancy is really hard on me. I seriously just don't have ANY energy. Last night I was so nauseous with a terrible migraine. I went to bed before 8 while hubby took care of the girls.

Well this week, I can't close my pants buttons anymore! And some of my shirts as well - the buttons won't close over my tummy And I'm only 12 weeks on Saturday! And still didn't tell my boss, so still trying to hide it!!

Hubby reluctantly agreed last night that we won't find out the sex of the baby saying that we will see anyways. He says if it's a boy we will definately see a willy standing up

Have an awesome day girls!

morning ladies

EmsMom - glad you got some sleep. No we dont call the police or child line. In all honesty, these girls are knowing and wanting sex...I know legally it is rape - but if you talk to them, they are consenting and knowing the consequences etc. Plus we do lots of births to teenagers so the police would need to live in the hospital!!

so this morning brings no better feelings. Cried for about 2 hours last night and an hour this morning. I am totally fed up with DH and don't want to do this anymore...
It has been a long time coming I have tried talking to him. I have tried getting us into therapy (but he said no) and now I am at my wits end and want to walk away
I sent him an email. It's like when I talk he hears nothing and takes nothing seriously...

Morning ladies.

h-buzz I was thinking about going to my gp for a scan, just to check, but perhaps now I'll wait for my gyane appointment. But nice that you got to see the heartbeat

Haylee I'm still holding out that you'll be joining us

Meags that must be so hectic to have to experiance. Now when those situations come up, does the hospital call the police? or childline? I mean she is technically being raped...

Sorry about DH not letting you know, you are right it is very upsetting.

AFM, Em seems to be on the mend. DH slept in her bed last night with her so I could get some sleep. And she actually slept well, only 1 or 2 wake ups and just one throw up. Stll keeping her at home and in bed today.

I actually broke down in tears last night from lack of sleep. I was so tired. Dh came come early and took her out to the shops for an hour so I could chill, and came back with sushi for me He then kept her for the rest of the night.

Anyways, hope the rest of you ladies have a good day and MS free!

H-Buzz how I hate GP's especially with pregnancies,glad that there is a HB so relax.I would advise that for anything use your gynae.my friend had a mc last month,going to the GP and he could see the hb but his dates also went back everytime she went till I advised her to go to the gynae where she found out that baby stopped at 4 weeks and she saw baby playing at the GP the day before.You do not have to worry about anything as long as the gynae says all is well it is.

Meags,kisses and hugs.hope this morning you are feeling better. a 15 yrs old what is the world coming to he

Hurray at least today I could brush my teeth with no gag .yesterday was coming down with flu,drank my LG's panado and I feel good this morning just sleepy.

hi ladies

i am absolutely pooped so no long post from me.
have been having some sharp pains in my v-jay jay...like near my tummy right in the middle...not sure what thats about.

15 year old girl delivered a prem baby today. her SECOND child. first one born november last year (yes...9 months ago...) and died in december and she fell pregnant straight away and had baby today...she must have been around 7-8 months preg...sigh...

will catch up properly tomorrow.
pissed off with DH. he didnt both calling me to say he's going for drinks with a colleague. i found out when i called him to say i'm on my way home. he said he'd be home by 8 at the latest. it's now 8:45 and he hasnt bothered to call to say he's running late or anything. sent him an sms to say he could atleast call out of respect. havent heard anything back.
I hate him right now...Aarrrggg