Feb-May 2011 Mommies

Thanks everybody. I have promised myself n hubby I aint dng no more scans tiLl I see the gyne. This morning had a bit of MS, but nothing major.. I also have this pulling feeling in lower tummy but read yest its pretty coMmon in 8th week, its the ueterus getting big.. Infact lst night whilst sleeping I turned n I had this sharp pain on my lower right abdomen.. So glad all is well.. Meags I am so sorry DH acting like a kid,, I hate it when they dnt take up to their resonsblities.. N I rem u jhave been having issues for a while.. Hope u guys can talk it out.. Kimika good luck with jOb hunting.. Shols - I also all of a sudden started having itchy skin on my neck last week n now its even by my boobs.. I hae tried bio oil but no help!! Hope all have a gr8 day

Kimika her number is 082 874 3841. If she doesn't answer, leave a message and she will call back. She's Afrikaans.

I'm meeting my midwife for the 1st time on Saturday at Genesis. Hope she's nice!

Meags indeed relationships are different and others are all hokky dorry and others not,DH must not give you that line as you can see there is a problem and you want it sorted out.Communication is a key that unlocks lots of tension my love and I love the fact that you do that even though he doesn't talk much make him,I am not saying fight with him as you can send the message through to a person without fighting.The e-mail thing also seems to be working,you must also write what you love about him and about the marriage and also things that you dislike e.g honey I love you when you do .... and will appreciate if when going out you atleast call me just to know that you are okay because lots of things can happen on the road especially when you had a little to drink.I know you are capable just I need surety that when you are out all is well for my sanity.

Men respond well to reverse psycology try it it might help.

Also had a problem with DH used to go out drink and times wouldn't even sleep at home ,luckily he agreed for us to use therapy and I told him how scared I am to be in the house all by myself and feel safe when he is around blah blah blah and it worked

Shols maybe it is an allergy.I always have an itchy body simple because I ate something that my body regetted.Please ask the pharmacist if an allergex is safe during pregnancy

oooo hubby said we can go for a scan next week at Genesis!! Want to phone and book, can someone pls give me Maryke's number?? If I book wed or thur then Ill be 14wks already and then we can sommer have a look at the facilities there.. this whole thing with my gynae being pregnant bothers me

Morning everyone!

H-buzz, I dont think you need to worry too much! Remember if the dr clicked a mm to the wrong side it affects the whole measurement.. thats why its really only an estimate. If the little heartbeat is still good then little baby is ok!! xxx

Meags, hope you feel a bit rested today. Cant believe a girl of that age would have had 2 kids by now!!?? REally sad Sorry that you feeling so upset with hubby.. maybe after reading your email he will come to some senses. How old is your hubby?? My hubby also had lots of tricks that slowly grew less when we had our son, now he is very mild.. Marraiges are full of ups and downs and sometimes the downs are so bad you cant see your way through it! Just stay strong and make him understand that if he chooses to ignore your mistakes thats fine, but you are not the same as him and you as a person need to air your issues in order to be more happy in your marraige and he needs to then respect that. Hope you get things sorted out.. *hugs*

Emsmom, glad Em is on the way of getting better... shame you must be so tired!!! Lucky you for getting some sushi!! Ive been craving it for months but hubby says no way Im getting some, last time we ate it he got so sick and almost landed in hospital with food poisoning.. booohooo!!!

Joli, hope you will be feeling better today!!! So nice that hubby agreed not to *ask* for gender hehe.. The guys can sometimes be even more curios then us girls!

Ah not much to report from my side.. hubby studying for his first exam on Saturday then going to visit MIL until Monday.. looking forward to seeing her, she is just the best MIL but we only see her every 3 or 4 months. I need to do some serious job hunting for hubby today so Ill be on the computer the whole day

Hi Ladies,
Just popping to say hello.
Meags sorry to hear about u and DH. Men can too much - i also had a run in with my DH yesterday - We've got a few differences and ive decided to agree to disagree.

H-Buzz, im sure like all the other ladies say - all is well - believe only the positive. I haven't been for my 1st scan yet, so im no expert at this. Im still praying all goes well for my 1st appointment.

I do have a question, do any of u suffer from itchy skin? From lastweek sometym ive been suffereing with itchy face and now I see its also my neck? any ideas?

Sjoe Meags. I know everybody's relationship is different. I've also been in relationships where my BF would go out and drink and come up with all sorts of excuses, BUT once you are married and especially when there are kids, both of you are responsible for that child. Will he still goes out without you when the baby is here? Leaving you to take care of the baby? I don't think you are unreasonable. I found out re my pregnancy on a Thursday and we had a big party planned for the Saturday for DH's b/day and he cancelled it. I told him to go ahead and he said NO as he won't be drinking as I can't drink. And some of our friends are a pretty wild bunch, so he wouldn't want to hear anything about the party going ahead. Now I know this is not for everyone. We can obviously not tell you what to do. I'm not sure walking out is the best solution either. Being a single mom is not easy. Ask me, I've been there for 4 years. There must be a way you guys can compromise and agree. The 1st year of marriage is never easy.