TRYING FOR 2015 BABY

Hi Ladies

I really do love chatting to you ladies and reading all the comments. I used to read the success stories on some forums just to keep me motivated.

Thinking of HoopVirDieBeste, if I get my BFP I will tell my sister and mom only (I have a small family) and will wait to tell hubbys family after 3 months, so scared that something might happen and I would rather seek comfort in my family than having the in laws fuss over me too. Don't get me wrong I love them to bits and they are great but do you ladies think that is wrong of me? If I tell my mom should I then tell his mom as well? He has a HUGE family so I think if I tell one of his family everyone will know.

Would you ladies want very close family to know or only from you side?

Ps, I gave up smoking 7 years ago this July and used to smoke more than a pack of 20 a day. I went cold turkey and it worked for me but my DH is finding it very difficult to quit but luckily he smokes outside too. I have read that one shouldn't drink or smoke during your tww but and (I might get shot for this...) but I love chatting over a glass of wine and it helps me relax when I am totally stresses out for ttc.

I am sure as soon as we get our BFP we will stop those naughty habits. I can totally understand HVDB that stopping the habits when one feels totally normal and in early pregnancy must be so difficult

Well ladies good luck those who are almost finished the tww, don't be despondent and relax, I believe you will have your BFP soon.

@ P4M1, do you still have your cramps? I have no symptoms and feel normal but going to BD anyway just in case I am still going to ovulate. Ooh we are going to have November babies.

@HoopVirDieBeste

That is great news hun!

yes, don't know the result, but doc said it was very high

@HoopVirDieBeste

Blood test is better anyway, did they do a hcg count?

P4M1 as we did IUI, FS sent us for a blood test exactly 2 weeks after insemination, which was a Saturday, we were away so we tested the Monday!I other words it was day 16 after insemination

@HoopVirDieBeste

I agree 500% We NEED to get a BFP!!!

Just for curiosity what test did you use for your BFP?

Ok, seing that most of us are smokers... you BETTER get your BFP's so that I am not the only enjoying the suffering of not smoking due to the miracle on his/her way!