Hi ladies
I hope you are all well!
I used to be on this forum but haven't been on in almost a year (shocking I know)
Hubby and I have decided that we want to start trying for our 2nd baby. Due to various things happening in my life, we have planned that I can only have a baby from August next year, so we would need to be pregnant by December / January. I know timing etc doesn't always work but I'm finishing up my degree and can't have a 2nd baby while still studying - the first one was hard enough.
Okay so to cut things short - I have no clue about VBACS except that gynaes don't like them. I need to go for a checkup before we start trying as I never did my 6 week follow up after Connor was born and he's 2 years old now (reason: my gynae was a total ass so I refused to go back)
Question 1: I need to choose a gynae now that is pro VBAC so I can have my checks and then start trying - and then stay with him/her for the rest of the pregnancies. Which gynaes are pro VBAC in the Southern Suburbs of Cape Town?
Question 2: Do I not need a gynae? i.e. should I be making an appointment to see a midwife instead, to better my chances of having a VBAC?
I feel like I'm getting ahead of myself, not even being pregnant yet, but I don't want to get a new gynae and then fall pregnant only to find out he/she won't even consider my VBAC request.
Thanks in advance
Eve