September / October / November mommys 2012

Hi there

What a weekend..
Friday went to church and then to Mil and guess what she said we must discontinue our dstv and save that money to go to the wedding. if i will do it it will be for stuff for my lo etc.
I have decided im not going they just dont know it yet
We had a lovely braai at my friends, and the saturday i was home alone dh went fishing so had some time to myself and saturday afternoon my friend who is 23wks pg came to visit and it was so nice.
Sunday lekker lunch at mil and i guess she knew not to say anything as she was so quiet maybe because there were other people.
Yesterday me and dh kind of sort out some stuff to get the baby room ready.

Today is me and dh 2nd anniversary so blessed i want to spoil him with cheddamelt steak that he love so much. we had a very rough year last year from retrenchment to blighted ovum and everything in between.

Mandz how are you doing.. hugs for you!!
JB i've tried voting but i just get the pic no option to vote.
Monica i believe everything is more than ok with your lo and i though its easy with the 2nd pg?? we are a week apart Monica
I still dont feel any movement cant wait for my scan next saturday then i will be 20wks and halfway cant believe it.

Hi to all you other lovely ladies!!

Take care

Morning Ladies

Hope you all had a great easter weekend!

Robyn - by the sounds of things your DH is starting to feel better but don't let him get away with treating you so badly - you deserve a decent apology.
Hope you got through your hectic weekend.

Mandz - so sorry to hear that. At the beginning of this pregnancy my doc thought we had a blighted ovum but things turned out ok. Hope you get through this all ok. It is traumatic no matter at what stage your pregnancy is not to be. Hug!!

Belaine - you need to do what you must do for your own baby. your MIL has had her turn to have babies and raise kids. so now she must leave it up to you. You must tell her straight that its your child and you will do what you feel is best for you and your baby and hubby. She can advise but its your choice to take it or not. She should not force it upon you.

elamsmom - hope you had a great weekend in the Eastern Cape.

isha - hope you and your family are all feeling a bit better now after the long weekend of being indoors. I also feel like i have a cold just waiting in the curtains ready to jump out. I need to take something to make it go away but just don't think that there is anything.

Joybaby - your daughter is beautiful! The photos are great.
will vote for sure! Hope the move and all that goes ok!! You must make sure you don't move too much and rather get someone to do it for you!

I am going on 17 weeks this week and Im seeing the doc on friday at 12h00. It cannot come soon enough! Im big time stressed and just hope that all is ok with my baby. Every now and then it feels like I felt my baby move but then I think nah its probably just my mind playing tricks on me. But hopefully friday will confirm that all is well and i can start feeling my baby move lots from here onwards.

My LG has been exceptionally naughty and cheeky and Im wondering if she feels/knows that something is up with baby coming at some point. We have told her that there is a baby in my tummy.... but ja - she is driving me nuts! Maybe could also be just me and being stressed about seeing the doc that she is picking up on things. I hope it gets better.

So i was suppposed to start unpacking all my LG's things this weekend so I could see what baby things i have and what I need to buy - but I did nothing!! I just did nothing all weekend. lazy bum am i!

Anyways hope you all well and thank goodness it is short week this week cos I dont think i would have made a full week.

Take care and look after yourselves - winter is upon us!

Chow

Hey girls

For those of you who wish to, please could you vote for my Kaylee. She is number 5!

www.moomie.co.za/index.php?option=com_ph...ompetition&Itemid=97

Hi there

Having a bad day and feeling emotional about it..

Robyn glad dh is feeling better, sorry to hear about Dakota hope she is well very soon.
Enjoy your hectic easter weekend and do tell us about it next week.

isha sorry to hear about all the sick, may you all have a wonderful indoor weekend!

JB ja its really a difficult situation, mil can be an angel and a bitch!!!
We havent bought anything for lo just the campcot, all the other stuff is gifts and what we had from last year!!
i dont want to drive that long with my lo and we dont have the finances to fly down looking at R4000 and we will have medical expenses etc. And im a 1st time mom so the bf etc will be new i will still be learning and getting use to the idea of being a mom.
So i guess i will be the enemy again and the whole family will hear how bad mother i am etc.
i wont buy unnecessary stuff im not going to neglect my baby just to go to a wedding.. in any case not sure we will be missed.

im just tired of her knowing me just when it suits her!!!! the one day she ignores me flat and dont get something to drink and 2 days later im her best friend.

She hurted me on sunday she didnt want to watch the dvd of lo fil called her 3 times and she said didnt want to but she insist that she goes with when we go for a 4d scan.
So then im good enough again. so sorry for her!! there is no way she is coming with to a scan again.
I can also be a bitch!!

Loving my dh very much!! JB he is a sweetie but sometimes eish... but overall im blessed!!

I hope you all have a wonderful long weekend

Take care

Just lost my post!!!!

Mandz very sorry to hear about your loss.

I had a blighted ovum last year 10 aug and here is my story. the d&c wasnt that bad i didnt had much bleeding or pain.
The next afternoon i started bleeding which was heavy and had huge clots that weekend and was very painful. i had bleeding for a week and then for the next 3 weeks i had on and of bleeding that is really tiring because to me it felt like a constant reminder.

I didnt want to do anything or go anywhere because everywhere was a pg woman or woman with a baby. and your mind is kind of like reminding you that you would've been so far every week etc.

Good luck, take care and deal with it like you please if you want to cry shout eat exercise
do it!!!

Big hugs take care

Hi Mandz
I'm so sorry! I MC'ed at 8wks and there really is nothing that anyone can say to take away the pain
You just have to believe there is a reason and this baby was just not meant fo ryou jsut yet!

Dakota is not doing so well - she's not eating and has a very runny tummy
MIL got some meds for her tum and a multi vitamin as she's not eating
Things are still abit strained at home - getting better (DH is fine with D now) but we're still
not really talking much
He told his BF on Tues and apparently seemed quite excited, so he's either a good actor,
or he's feeling better

Can't believe it's Easter already!! Haven't even managed to buy a single egg
Want to have a little egg hunt for D on Sun

It's SIL's b'day today and we're doing the 2 Oceans 5km walk tom (will have to see if w take D with)
and my bro's b'day tom (meant to go out for supper with D but DH has made other plans and not sure
how D will be) and then un is Easter!!!
What a hectic next few days!

((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) Mandz!

I guess most of us know what you are going thru. There are no words to take away the pain you are feeling. Just know that we are here for you!

Not much time for updates. I hope all you ladies are doing well. Remember to rest well this weekend.
AFM: Got the flu, Dh sick and lg is sick. So we gonna have a indoor weekend.