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16 years 1 week ago #122744 by Eloise_W
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Maureen. Please dont give in. He is just being a Jerk and he more than likely is aiming to make you so uncomfortable that you'll just leave.
You deserve the promotion!

Cape Town. EDD 21ish June
Christiaan Barnard Memorial Hospital

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16 years 1 week ago #122733 by Eloise_W
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Hello gals!

I've been waiting for the thread to heat up again!

Kylie is 4 and a half months a quite a little munchkin now. Im back at work for 3 weeks and absolutely pooped by 3.30. Tried to have robin at home looking after the girls but he lasted a week - haha. So we now have a nanny, which means Im broke all the time, but she deals pretty well with the girls. And it was a good decision.
Kylie has not taken to the bottle at all - even tho we've been trying for months. So in despiration I started her on solids. She has her meals during the day plus water. She hates formula (tried different) and she hates the bottle teat too! We'll however keep trying!
So of course this means a feeding fest from the time I get home till the time I leave for work the next day.
And our little rolly polly loves attention and will talk to anyone that passes by!
As you can imagine I love my weekends! Nothing is better than spending some R&R with the little ones!

Cape Town. EDD 21ish June
Christiaan Barnard Memorial Hospital

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16 years 1 week ago #122665 by simone k
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Maureen,

Don't leave, you will sort this out. You have always worked towards this promotion and you got it and you absolutely deserve it.
I think that by going to your new manager, it is the right thing to do.
Hang in there Maureen, the old manager just needs a talking to and it will all come right.

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16 years 1 week ago #122496 by maureen84
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Morning Ladies,

Sal - believe me it gets better. I have been back for over 2 months and in the begining it is bad but you and baby will get used to it. It is a horrible thing to say "get used to it" but what other choice is there really?

So ladies I am in a situation that I don't really know what to do with:
I got a promotion while being on maternity leave. This is something that I was really working hard for and wanted since I started. But the problem is that I am now on equal level as my previous manager and he isn't taking it that well. He talks behind my back to other people, and these people tell me things as they don't really like him that much. He is also making it very difficult for me to do my job. I am going to my new manager this morning to have a word. As I am really unhappy. But my old manager brought this on himself, he never did the work, I did and he got the credit.

I am at a point where I just want to take my things and leave! I really wished that this would work out but I don't think it will. So on the one hand I feel I have to look for a new job but then on the other hand I don't understand why I have to, he is the idiot and the one that feels sorry for himself. But I am the one getting all the stuff done, and then the stuff that he did while I was on maternity leave, that was wrong, comes back to bite me...and all he does is say "well you are the project account now and that is your work". He pushes everything onto me and it feels like I am spinning out of control!

What must I do? I really am struggling here...I need a life-line... :unsure:

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16 years 1 week ago #122251 by Sal
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Howdy! I've been back at work for 3 weeks now and am still hating it :( I feel so jealous of our nanny who gets to see him smile and laugh all day.

Shane is 4.5 months now and is just over 9kg's, he's a real back breaker! No solids for him yet I'm planning on keeping it that way till 6 months and then I would like to start that Baby-Led weaning. I've been reading up on it on the other forum.
He is sitting for short periods on his own, looks like a little budda. He's still dribbling loads but no sign of teeth yet.

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16 years 1 week ago #122039 by maureen84
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Hi Ladies,

Nelria - I have been trying to update and so on, but we get chatting and then it starts to die down again.

I have been back at work for 2 months now. Miss having Jamie with me but also thankful I work. Spent the whole weekend in doors as he still has a bad cough and with the wind blowing didn't really want to take him out. And 2 days of nothing else, I am happy to be back at work.

Jamie is going to the sister for a check up on Wednesday, so will let you know the measurements.

Glad the exam went well last week.

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16 years 1 week ago #121937 by Nelria
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comeeeeeeeeeeeee onnnnnnnnnnn ladies!!!!!!!! we are letting our thread die a slow painfull death!!! get chatting!!!

pics pics and pics i want to see what your munchkins are looking like all fatand round now

most of u must be back at work now??

afm xen is great i general coming along nicely at 4 mnths he weighed 7kgs and 62cm long

he is eating solids everything and anything 3x a day

he is still on boob and plan to keep him till feb next year

he is in school at the moment for a mnth till the 10th as I am writing exams and he is really soing so well when i get there he is in a chair or playgym or walk ring playig away buy himself

he practises sitting not there yet but with all his fat can balance nicely by now

no teeth

still sleeping like crap as he wakes every 3-4hrs and is up and about at 5

day sleeps quite well though so that is nice

both been sick on and off again of late but pumping vitamins to keep them at bay so mummy can study

afm going on two holidays wooooooooooooohoooooooooo a week in margate from 19th nov then again a week in sudwana from the 4th dec going to be awsome the week in sudwana is with 4 other buddies should be interesting as we going in one car so 6 adults and two babes shame poor them lol

the week in margate is with in-laws 2 cars so not bad as we will have babysitters yippie

my last exam hopefully for veryyyyyyy long time is 8th nov cant wait first dec in 3 years not studying

lea turning 2 on 10th nov having barney party at school should be fun she got her 11th teeth recetly so been misluk along with colds

afm had gastro for a week yuck but babes didnt so happy for that

ok so that is me in nutshell come on girls lets get this thread pumping again - my oct 08 mums on here chat daily 3 pages and out ones turning 2 already but we cant live without each other and is such a support and online network its amazing

xxx

Location: Pretoria East
Little girl - Lea 11/11/08
Little boy - Xen 09/06/10

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