Feb-May 2011 Mommies

Aaah cutie pie! She's gorgeous!

just quickly before I do personals and updates.
Here is a pic of gorgeous perfect baby Amelia

Shame man Faw, it sounds like you're battling with both your dad and your ex and all of this while heavily pregnant! It can't be easy!

Re your dad I agree that it might be better for all of you if he goes to a home, even if it is just for a while to give you a break and until he maybe gets a bit better/less aggressive.

Re your ex I would agree with the principle of no money for maintenance = no visits! Since you are not yet legally divorced there are no actual legal rules stating whether he should see your son or not, so I would just not allow him to see him.

Congratulations tazzy.
We decided today as a family without consulting my dad that we are going to put him in a home. My mom isn't coping, my dad is rebelling worse than my son and i can't be of much help at the moment with him. He attacked my mom the other day and hurt her arm. He keeps attackin my son and if he hurts my mom what is he doing to my son?!
Thank heavens last night i got a good nights sleep. I didn't have that ligament pain and was able to sleep and my son behaved.
Today my husband keeps calling me and wants to see me. I brushed him off by saying may be saturday. I honestly don't know what to do. He says he will be going back to pmb and it can't happen fast enough. He wants to see his son, but he isn't and hasn't given any money in 7 months for his care. I have heard different stories about visiting rights. One theory being no money no visits and the other being it doesn't matter he can still see his son. I want it supervised if it happens but he can't come into this house because my mom won't allow it. I can't meet in a public place cos its a kidnapping risk. Please tell me what you girls would do so i can sit and think about it and decide. Its easier for you cos you are not emotionally involved. Thanks. I just want to cry today.

Just a quick CONGRATS to Tazzy and welcome to our first baby girl !!! Cannot wait to see the pics.

hi lovely ladies so lovely re our new babies dying to see pics! Claire it was dr wickers who practices out of sandton clinic. He was v good. Re the meds i had morphine on da one those click pumps where u self administer but cant overdose and then paramor supposiitories i think the are the generic cheaper voltaren ones have had no problems. Oh and sto pyn when needed but have no needed my stomac is already quite flat!!!!!! Except for charming pouch whic hangs over at the bottom just at my scar whic is eight cm joli weird how these things differ he mine was vertical sorry horizontal just at bikini line yrs too?

Schatsie supserstar and all ct ladies for coping in tha ridiculous heat!!!! Re yr question re expressing i a doing both expressin formula i dont have a lot of milk i had a ton on day four very little now when i breastfeed w i dont know if he is getting much when i do get milk i treat it like liquid gold lol! Pretty much relying on formula but he looks healthy and happy and def putting on weight cant wait to weigh him! He remains the goodest sweetes child on the block! Foive hour stretch this am and just charming when he woke up! My mom leaves tom bit is nearby hope i continue to cope well feels like i have period pains when does yr period come back after my d and c i think it was like three months??
Cath
xxx

Misty you and I are definitely going to have some big babies - my LB also always measures 2 wks ahead i.t.o. size! And I had to laugh at you keeping on asking when your baby will come, because I do the same and try to twist dr's arm to give me an earlier C sec date. I reaaaaaaaaaaaaally want him to come at 38 weeks!!!!

Gee, so much for the cooler weather today. Our office aircon is still not working 100% and I had to go outside to the pharmacy now and nearly did not manage to walk the one block! I could SO do with being on ML already! Come on 31 March!