Feb-May 2011 Mommies

My mom is going to call some places today for my dad and see. Two places we already know and the one charges r12 000 and the other takes a percentage of your pension.
My son has decided he doesn't want to wear a nappy any more on his own and prefers his training pants. So i started yesterday late afternoon and will do it again this afternoon. Exciting times.

Hi girls.
My post doesn't want to be sent, so i try again.
Thanks for all the advice. I won't see him before monday cos there is the risk of losing everything i have built up since july last year. All he needs to do is kiss me and hug me and the islamic divorce is reversed. So on saturday will say i can't meet and it will have to be on monday at the mjc.

Tazzy - congratulations! So pleased everything went well. Sounds like you are recovering well, off the pain meeds and already up and about, you are a superstar!

Meags - how are you? You must feel better to have gotten your feelings off your chest, haven written everything down.
The first year of marriage is definitely the hardest, and thrown into the mix you are having a baby, which comes with hormones cand a huge change of life. Before i had Matthew DH and I enjoyed going partying and socializing, at the pub, with friends, at the sports club - wherever. It was also difficult to change our lives when M arrived. But you do. Hopefully DH will come around when baby is born. Perhaps he feels a bit overwhelmed by everything. I think of you often and you really deserve to be treated like a princess and the love that you have for everyone should be returned 10 foldxx

Faw- perhaps you should get the family advocate to give his opinion on whether DH should get access. Generally the court will give the husband access, unfortunately even if he has not been paying, unless you can prooove to the court that it is not in the child's best interest to see his father. Eg if he is a drug addict or alcohol abuser, then they may grant his supervised access. The courts are of the opinion that children should have relationships with both parents.

Hopefully you sort everything outxx and can enjoy the rest of your ML before baby arrives.

Late for work ladies, will try catch up with you all later xxxhello to everyone else!

Morning,

Just a quick selfish post!
Thanks for all the congrats.

I had a lovely birth experience yestetday. Evrything went so well. I was up and about 3hours after the csection and I'm off pain meds now.
A bit tender but not unbearable.
A
Amelia is an angel - she is latching and feeding well. She isn't going to be wearing newborn clothes for long - she is a big baba. 56cm tall!
She has her dads copper hair and is just beautiful. I can't stop staring
at her.
Hannah came to meet her baby sis yesterday. She is over the moon. Too cute. But she was so upset that I couldn't go home with her and dh last night. It broke my heart!

Will try catch up later.
Xxxxx

well I wrote the letter...it's 4 pages long!!!!!!!
Think he's gonna freak a bit when he sees the length!

Congrats Jessica and Tazzy!

Enjoy your LO's!!

you have to watch this...it is so cute....Might cheer you up a bit Meags....so sorry that DH is been a POOH HEAD! I really hope that he changes when M arrives!! That is NO WAY TO TREAT your pregnant wife! Stress or no stress......but glad u got to meet up with that old friend today!

Kimika...R is just to cute....

AFM.....YAY I AM HERE AGAIN at 1am.....was just youtubing and when found this baby laughing i had to share!!