Feb-May 2011 Mommies

This is the most horrible news Kaylae, I hardly have words.. this must be the worst thing ever possible!! Im so sorry for you and your family.. Will keep you in my prayers and be thinking off you all the time!!!! Lotsa hugs my dear xxx

Ok so my update:
I had to have a good cry now.. today is such a rollercoaster.. Kaylae's news was just the final bit...

Ok so gynae is still not happy with my little guy's growth. He is now between 2.6 and 2.7kg. Its not the weight that is bother her, its the growth pattern that is slowing down. She says she is always cautious when this happens because you can never predict when the placenta and cord can no longer sifficiently nourish the baby. So she suggests induction on Tuesday if nothing has happened by then. Before she did the scan she mentioned that baba *feels* smaller and funny because I noticed yesterday already that my tummy *looked* and *felt* smaller. She says its because baby has dropped even more and is a good sign that things are progressing.

Good news is that she did an internal and found me to be between 3 - 4cm dilated... so she laughed and said anytime now and if it happens it might happen fast.. so Im hoping something will happen before Tuesday!! She offered a stretch and sweep but I said no way! eina..

So why Im upset is that I was hoping for another week or so for baba to grow and me to mentally prepare myself.. I never thought he would come early.. Also I wish I knew more exactly that growth is not just slowing down because thats his genetic growth pattern.. but Im not really willing to take chances and wait it out. Then I would rather be happy to trust my dr and play it safe. I just so didnt want to go the same induction route again But she said the induction will go fast. She said that normally the first part of labour is progressing from closed to 4cm. She said if I were to have contractions now I would be in active labor just because if the dilating bit. So all in all.. Im hoping something will happen this weekend!! I have so much stuff to get sorted out and done before baba.. its just crazy! My mind is spinning.. feels like I have too much to decide on. Pls give me your thoughts.. what would you have done?

Karin, those are the exact same symptoms I had last week!!! It was exactly 35wks6days... so lets hope its good stuff And I suggest maybe packing your bags?

Tazzy, its def more than EWCM!! The same texture etc but just lots more..

Kaylae - I am so so very sorry for your loss, this is such terribly sad news!!! *big hugs*

Thanks for the support ladies, he really was a very great man, just a little bit sad at the office.

Cath - I agree re the UIF forms.

Meags - I assume the will send you for the 3 hour test now? hope that comes back 100% - shame hun as if anything more could happen your side.

Oh no Kaylae, I just can not believe this terrible news!!!! I'm SO SO sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts!!

I'm in tears now, think I should go home early.

No no no no no no no no!!!!!!!!!!! Why why why why????????????? I don't understand why such a thing must happen to such a lovely lady. A lady who makes us all smile and who is always so positive and upbeat. Kaylae, my heart aches for you and I am crying sad sad tears for baby Tshami.

RIP angel Tshami.

Oh Im struggling so much believing what has happened... Its not right, its not fair...
My heart is shattered for our Kaylae....
Oh Kaylae, all I can wish for you is God's peace and love.
I am truly so sorry.
Lots of love and hugs.

Kaylae, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May you find acceptance and peace in this sad moment. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Love and light xxx

Kaylea - I'm so very very sorry for your loss!!!!!!!! You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers during this difficult time!!!