We had a second baby just becasue we wanted one. We spent alot of time worrying about when was the right time and could we afford it and then we realised that if we kept thinking that way we would never have one. So we ended up taking a while to fall pregnant but now we do have two wonderful children but we still don't own a house and that's ok. We also make it through every month somehow and we are not not living on the breadline or antyhing like that eventhough we really thought we would struggle. The only thing we did differently to try and save was not use disposable nappies and that has helped alot. And now we have decided to have a 3rd baby and our situation has not changed much financially or with regards to a house etc.
Good luck with your decision. Go with what your heart tells you not your head.
I am seriously beginning to think about having a second baby. But when are one actually ready. I know this is a question only I can answer but what made you ladies decide to have a second baby ? I am so broody and my husband also want a second baby.
But I am always the one that has to think about everything and consider EVERYTHING.
So the main thing at the moment is that the Budget is ok but will it stay ok ??? Will we make it ?
And we are renting a huge 3 bedroom flat and is that ok ??? Is it ok to rent and not own ??
When ..... ?
