Anyone else trying for a 2014 baby?

I agree. I was hoping the 3's are better! I have bad days as well Flowergirl. I just try to take it one day at a time. Some days are great, some days I wish I could have just stayed in bed.

I am at the end of my period. No idea when I ovulate because my cycles are irregular. I must still buy Inofolic next month.

Hope everyone have a lovely weekend.

Welcome ShelleyP

Ladies, you're making me worried about the three's. We are almost half way through the Two's. just kidding What can one do but keep calm and carry on.

Was in JHB yesterday - 6 o'clock flight out and 3h39 flight back, crazy! have a major headache now.

Emily is 33 months old - so almost 3 years old. I am really at my wits end. We started her at pre-school in Jan, but had to take her out. She just wasnt coping. So now she is home again and driving my mom crazy from 9-5 (bless her). I am really struggling though and when you are in the situation its hard to believe that it is "normal"........ trying times. I've actually been seeing a clinical psychologist for some help to cope. But yea, there's a story for another day!

Welcome ShelleyP!!!

Hello girls

I am new to this forum. Let me introduce myself. I am 30 and have a gorgeous naughty 2-and-a-half year old son. I had a miscarriage and strugged for a year to get pregnant with him.

We have been trying again for 6 months already.

My cycles vary from 26 days till 36 days. I am interested in taking Inofolic to see if that will help. And I really need to lose weight!

Feel disappointed every month when my period arrives. Sometimes I also wonder if I am crazy wanting a 2nd child. My son has definitely hit the terrible twos. I would love to give him a sibling though. I am very broody some days.

I hope and pray we are all pregnant before the end of the year!

GW - I completely agree with you. My LG turns 4 at the end of June - and things are just starting to go better. I often wonder why they call it the terrible twos - when the threes are so trying!! As you said - my daughter is now starting to follow instructions, and be more pleasant. Her outbursts are further apart, and she's more easily calmed when having an outburst. I found that for most of her threes she was incredibly frustrated. I'm so glad that I realised that it was frustration - because if I hadn't I would just be angry with her all the time. I actually just felt so sorry for her - because everything was so REAL and so HARD for her.

Morning everyone!

Nicolette - Sounds like a nasty side-effect!!! Hope it lightens soon...

Flowergirl - Is she around 3?? I can write books of poetry about a 3 year old...It was really a tough time for us. My LG is turning 4 on friday and things are going better - you can actually reason with her at times, but a 3 year old....forget about it!! If I could go back in time I would do few things different. For one I know now that a 3 year old can NOT follow instructions and expecting them to do so is futile. The times when they actually do follow your instructions are pure coincidence because it alligned with their own needs at that time too. It is just a wave you must ride out - forget about staying in control!

After speaking to my therapist about the whole second child idea thing, my husband and I both decided that if it will happen then we accept it but if it doesn't happen before a certain age we see it as it was not meant to be. My husband and I are both concerned that we will not cope with a second child because my health is really poor at times. If we only have one child we can afford private schooling for my LG, but if we have 2 children we seriously doubt it, something that is a concern for us. Anyway, just wanted to say that I know this is a difficult position to be in...

Just fertomid, Flowergirl. How old is Emily now?