hallo there,
with regards to meds. be careful for panado in the first 3 months.
the only thing that is definately neccessary for the first 3 months is cramp stuff. for the firts 4 months cramps are a daily adventure.
gripe water worked a bit for G. telement drops didnt work at all, so i dont think i'll get that again.
i gave him tissue salts nr 8 three times a day which helped alot with winds and then should he cry after a feed i gave some gripe water and for the hectic cramps i used Sister lillian Colic care - sister Lillian is a great range for anything and it really works well and fast. and it is homeopathic, so no chemicals involved.
Behoedmiddel also works very well for anything tummy related ( a Lennons product)
i would also recommend Ponstan instead of panado or Neorofen.
and some saline nose spray. they tend to get stuffy noses in the beginning making it hard to feed.
thermometer i would say is neccessary - but you will emediately feel if your baby is getting a fever
so my 4D scan was absolutely AMAZING. what a privileged to be able to see him like this. he is 1,24kg and already 41cm. she recons he will be a average 3,5 kg at birth (which will be awesome for me as this is much smaller than G was) and everything is 100% with his development so far.
he has got big brothers chin and nose and already has lots of hair on his head.