@Kimmy - yes, I'm pretty sure that the shower is tomorrow. DH's ruse is about his sister painting the mural in the nursery and how the times and everything are getting messed around and such. I'm playing along
@LouiseM - no, I'm not getting pressure about natural birth, a friend of mine was complaining that her doctor is pushing her for a C-section. I've just had people going on about methods to turn my lg from breech and have said that I'm just going to let it run its course and deliver by whatever means will be best.
And I'm quite excited 'cause my best friend lives in France and she got a hold of me yesterday to show me the adorable Beatrix Potter soft toy she's got for El. It's Hopsy (one of Peter Rabbit's sisters). And she'll be personally delivering it later this year

But I can't say much about it because she's only told me and her mom, but I'm not too worried that her secret might get out to other family and friends through this forum

She wants to surprise her sister so I must just keep pregnancy brain in check when I see her (hopefully she'll be at the shower too)!