HVDB, wow, that sounds exciting!! You're about 36 weeks now right? Holding all my thumbs and toes... And yes, the compactum is awesome!!
Juanita, so cool to be back on here and discussing newborns again

I think you are completely right, some babies are fussy about nipples etc, and others really just want to get the milk at all costs

We were blessed that my LG was the latter, because I knew literally nothing about the subject, but that apparently doesn't guarantee that the new baby will be the same. I would like to breastfeed again until 6 months, like I did with my first, because I have a history of allergies, but we'll see what happens.
My thoughts on breastfeeding are the following; It is not the be-all and end-all of motherhood (and I feel pretty much the same about natural birth). I think it is more important for mom and baby bonding, that mommy must be happy and calm with as little stress as possible and get to enjoy her baby. Us women get judged enough for our choices, I don't think we should put excessive pressure on ourselves to perform in this regard as well. Yes, I believe breast is best, but not to the exclusion of all else. If it becomes a terrible stressful experience, then that is not to baby's (or mommy's) advantage. So I will see how things go this time, and hope for the best.