Juanita, I was mostly on November / December 2012 Babies, as my LF was due early November. But she ended up being an October baby (22 Oct) due to the c-sect. Which forum were you on?
I agree with the vaseline (for merconium) as well as the breastfeeding advice! My LG was born at 2.8kg and lost quite a bit of weight in hospital (hubby says she lost approx 1kg

but I think he remembers wrong), but the nurses never even tried to pressure me into formula, as I did have colostrum and she seemed satisfied after every feed, little as it was. I have heard of the cup feeding method, with my Medela Swing they actually supplied a little cup specifically for that purpose. I miss my Medela, I gave it away after I stopped breastfeeding, as we were not planning on having another baby
My LG never got nipple confusion, I started expressing and bottle feeding quite early (about 2 weeks) so that hubby could be involved in feeding, and she never developed any issues. She also switched very easily to having mostly bottle feeds after I went back to work, and then afterward when I weaned her from the breast and went onto formula around 6 months. I know some women who also breastfed exclusively, who had problems with baby taking a bottle, but I think we were just lucky and my LG wasnt very fussy as long as she got her milk one way or another. She never took a dummy though, no matter what we tried, which made for a nightmare in the first couple of months when she had colic.