Oh Girly, I'm so sorry for your difficult day, it does takes its toll on you mentally, emtionally and physically.
I hope the rest of the evening is going better.
I would nicely tell the helper you don't require her services anymore, I think with the language barrier it might be difficult explaining why. Having her will just add to your frustrarions. I found it very frustrating for me and have been through many helpers, just find it easier doing it myself. However having said that I am finding it difficult to take care of Peyton and do the chores so thinking of getting a helper again once a week.
Peyton fed at 7h15 and in bed by 8h30, got up now just before 1h00 for her feed and putting her off to sleep now. Will have to move her out of the moses crib soon as she is getting too big for it and into the nursery. Not looking forward to that

She frank 150ml bottle plus breast feed top up! Usually doesn't ever finish her bottle. After drinking she had a massive poo

and soiled her clothes and had to change her clothes in between her feed
She seems to like her new swing but only at short periods of time, its very stimulating for her.
Do any of you get the munchies during the late night/early morning feeds? I do, but never give in to it

but find I'm always hungry these days (breastfeeding)