Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

Hi Guys,

Just a quick pop in - I am not in the mood to really type anything today - stil feeling pretty shit and down, DH and I did talk last night, but we cried together the whole night - and I look and feel exhausted today!

Sorry about all the bad nights!!!!

Nelria - re puking fx it blows over - and is not something serious - good luck!

Tantrums, I don't even want to get started on CJ's tantrums, he has this screetching scream when I say no, or take something away from him, it is starting to get on DH nerves, and he does not have the patience to deal with it, and says we should give CJ a hiding, I believe this would make it worse, but ignoring the tantrum is also not working at the mo, so I am quite at the end of my rope with this aswell, hope the stage passes quickly!

Anyway, almost going home! Have a nice evening everyone!

Lisha i call my child a little Judas...cause she will sit and fall asleep in my SIL's flippin arms...just sits there and falls asleep..I am thinking...my child cant u feel the dislike mommy feels for that cow!!! lol

Then this morning she was calling for other SIL and MIL!She hardly sees my 2 SIl's...but when she sees them its like they are her fave aunts! (Much to vannah's annoyance!lol)

She doesnt have a preference...anybody can put her to sleep...anybody can babysit her.

Even when she cries for dada...if its only me...tough luck..and she must just accept it!

She was crying for my mom's domestic helper the other day after spending one day there. She latches onto ANYBODY!

Simone fx for Coke ... it's some hope at least

Re tantrums and daycare ... squash that theory now Shrey is throwing huge tantrums at the moment ... even the grannies are feeling the strain lol. I think the closer he is getting too close to the dreaded 'terrible 2's' .... looks like it's going to be scary stuff

I would give almost anything for Shrey to be 'anybody beside me vas' He used to love to be with fil but not anymore ... sometimes my mum will be first preference but that is so seldom that it doesn't count grrrr.

Mandy if we leave Addison she'll probably cry til she has a heart attack! That being said...i really want her to move out..but the mechanics of that....we're not ready bed wise or access wise to the house!

Ara and Lisha...you want Pa Vas? come to my house! Addison is daddy beserk! And its not a phase....she just loves her father way more...i guess he would be asking: how can i get her ma vas a bit??? lol

Angelique glad u enjoyed date night;-) Lol re: Jacob! He is one hot young boy...those abs are to die for! I hope he never takes a movie that requires him to have a shirt on!

I had to laugh though..i read an interview with him and he said in this movie he walks into the school hall and rips his shirt off. So he yells: CUT! to the Director...and he asks...So i am randomly walking to school and rip my shirt off??? NO NO NO!! I am not gonna be the guy that can only do roles with my shirt of! no!

It was so cute and funny!

Then last night i was watching Lost...I never thought Jack was cute...and the man whips out a gun and starts shooting bad guys dead...I'm like: Wow Dr Sheppard is kinda hot when he is being bad a$$! lol

Julz glad the sleep training is paying off!

Wow I am in shock...I could post!!!!

Just some news on this side....so I emailed my cousin at Coke finally and she said the position has not been filled...sorry for delay but i'll have an answer by end of week. So not positive news...but a little hope hey??

then got a little audit sideline job worth about R6000 - R7000 and it must be done by the weekend so the sooner i get it done...the quicker i get payment. It takes away study time though...but i really need the money and just need to work fast and smart.

Oh man I also lost my long post from the morning!!! GRRR!!!!

cant even remember anymore!

Okay...Yoza..i wrote to you saying you must stop bragging here. Sleep through kids, domestic goddess and sex 3 times a week??? U are making us all look bad! lol. But u have inspired me to try and increase the sex per week quota..lol..to maybe like 2ce a week. 3 times? Its not xmas!

Nicole...early wake up...GRRR!!!! I am going insane with Addison's antics. Being in bed in early hours really not working for me;-(

Nelria....sorry about the vomiting. I wrote this morning that C used to projectile vomit..maybe Vix can help. Not sure if she has responded yet as I am still catching up.

There was another one or 2...but i cant remember!!!

Helen...YIKES at tantrum! I am so so lucky to not have tantrums yet.

Just a theory...but all of you complaining about tantrums...are all your kids at a day care? Are they not maybe seeing it from other kids? I worry about that when we are at bible school...cause the kids are quite bratty (always other people's kids...lol) and i wanna close her eyes so she doesnt see that its an option to act like that! We go into a shop...and i swear...she will want chips...and we say no and thats it.I will say...there are chips at home and i'll give her then. I find we can reason with her quite well. If she asks for chips or choccies...I say there's no more (an empty packet for extra effect) and life moves on. But look this could always change tomorrow....these kids change daily!! But not looking forward to it!

Ara i have to laugh at the image of you chasing a kid outside to play! lol