Robyn_c - so mine and yours were born on the same day

, also for the teething tried something different this weekend coz Kaelyn was really struggling, its called Prodol... tried it myself and oh boy does it numb your mouth... but it doesn't last very long... oh and you hava to ask at clicks as it seems its an otc drug... LOL
Girly - re the walking ring, ours is like charnenay's a rocker too, we use it to feed her in as she seems to prefer to stand than sit, but she still spends more time playing on the floor or out of it... but if you need a break it works. Also K is just about crawling... she manages to move forward at a good pace, it just looks a bit funny as its only moderately co-ordinated, its 90% mad dash and 10% concentration. hope your little one is feeling better, its terrible when they are battling like that.
EileenB - Yeah i agree... we spoke to our PAED about the tea and she said absolutely not before nine months, even without the sugar, it binds to the iron in their system and then they can become anaemic as they cant absorb iron. we then took this to the MIL who now gives her a feeds worth of what i am told is plain water each day but i still suspect sugar. Every day when we fetch her she makes a point of telling me how much water she got Kaelyn to drink, the way i see if they needed it you wouldn't have to force feed it to them, with or without the sugar.
The day mom was okay, nothing special, Hubby got a fright when we walked out and i said while i don't like they daymom i prefer her to his mom... he suddenly realised just how bad things were, so he wants to go to his mom today without me and sit down and tell her that weve priced a day mom she only costs us R200 more than his mom and if his mom really wants to look after Kaelyn she has to respect my wishes and listen when we make the few requests we do make.
See thing is the day mom issued us a list of things that she wanted to know our preference on, which his mom has never even brought up, and suddenly he realised that the day mom had a point about the issues...
We will see how things go from here, but i don't hold high hopes about the MIL she's to old & set in her ways and way way too stubborn.