Feb-May 2011 Mommies

wow ladies - 2 babies in the space of 12 hours (or so)

Congratulations Faw and Driekie!!!!

Meags - Absolutely gorgeous photos!! I agree with Tazzy on DH actually admitting - that is a big step for a man and they get very embarrased about it. Its a tension release more than an intimacy thing - that is how I see the whole action, but that is my opinion. I understand that after 3 months or more that this is just the cherry on top (pardon any pun here). I like your expectation list - you are so honest with him.

Tazzy - woo hoo on 5 years anni today - enjoy dinner

Schatsie - how is the back brace today? did you enjoy your pedicure? nice on the parking btw... the little things really count so close to the end.

Mistymom - still love the name chipolata. take it easy these last few weeks.

Lucy - I hope Tessa calmed down a lot and you get your c-section date today thought of you a lot last night xxx

Congrats Faw & Driekie!!

Meags - that is a bit selfish of your DH. But amazing that he told the truth, I doubt my dh would if I had to ask.
Your birth plan for dh sounds great.
How are your Hems? I hope they getting better, but yeah you right they are probably going to get worse during labour.

Schatsie - thx for the faw updAtes. And woohoo on the closer parking. Just wanted to say that I also had symphis pubis pain while preg, and it all disappeaRs once baby is born. I feel your pain, gosh mine got really bad.

Lucy - how you feeling today? Can't wait to hear wht gyn says this afternoon.

Afm - its our 5th wedding anniversary today! Dh and I are going out for dinner tonight ( a very quick dinner) we basically only have 3hours cos I'll have to be back to feed little madam.

We went back to the hospital to register her birth yesterday, but got there and found out the dumb home affairs official was off sick. What a waste of time. So we'll go Again next thurs.
While I was there I quickly weighed Amelia and she is 3.8 kgs now so has picked up her lost weight

She seems very unsettled today, I recon she must be having a little growth spurt, cos she wants boob every 2hrs.

She's awake - gotta go

@ Schatsie - thanks for posting that, when you do hear from Faw, please let her know that I wish her the best and congratulations.

Thanks

Good Morning Ladies

Just want to let you know that driekie had her baby this morning
She sms me at 00:50,saying they are on their way to hospital

Eoin was born at 02:40 am
3.9 kg
55 cm

Have a great day

Good morning girls

I got an sms from Faw's mom to say her son was born at 21h25, weighed 3.25 kgs and is 51 cms long. She said mom and baby is doing well.

I smsed Faw again this morning to get more details and to ask whether she managed to get some decent sleep. She must be exhausted after everything she went through!!

Meags my dear, I hope you are feeling better by now!! Men can really be such pigs sometimes!!! Looove your pics!

Hope you all have a lovely Fri - almost weekend and Mistymom, less than 3 weeks before we go on ML! YAY!!

Morning Girls

Any news on Faw? Logged on now hoping to have something! Shame hope she is ok and came right with GS...what a nightmare!

Schatsie...so glad you cam eright with bras! Ya the woolies ones are not that bad at all and at that price i also bout 4!

CathM - sorry you did not come right wit hbras at woolies!

Meags - love the pics...did you do them yourself?? MUST get DH to do some like that for me this weekend!

Lucy - please let us know how teh appointment went??? Will you be next?

Amy - welcome! DO you have GD?

Karin - so glad you seem to be doing well! Enjoy this special time with your princess

HI all else

Have had a very restless night again think i have work deadlines on my mond for today! Chipolata has been wiggling non stop the last few days...sometimes when i am alone driving in car i actually laugh cos its so funny / ticklish. At least teh rib kicking has cooled down, but now can start to feel at times shooting pains going down to my vagina and also baby pressing on bladder. these are fairly new so not sure if baby getting bigger or has maybe dropped a bit. But at least at the moment it is bareabe!

Oh ladies I am beyond heart broken
I confronted DH about the sex thing. For some reason today, out of no where, I thought "surely a man has to ejaculate at least every few weeks. In the form of sex, masturbation, wet dreams whatever"
(Sorry for this personal post!)
So I asked him tonight if he masturbates and he said no. So I explained my theory that testosterone levels would make the sperm come out one way or another. He kept denying it but I could see he was almost embarrassed. So I kept on at it.
He eventually admitted to doing it he said not often. Now let me just say even when we did have sex, once a week was a huge achievement. It was usually once every second week. So I ask how often he masturbates. He says not more than once a week! I said that for 3 months I have been begging him to be intimate with me in ANY form and he's always said he's not in the mood cos he's stressed and tired. Now I find out he's pleasuring himself once a week so its clearly more about just not wanting to be near me intimately. I am hurting SO much. I feel so ugly, unattractive and now clearly useless too. I can't believe he's been doing that all along while telling me he has no sex drive from stress.
He must know I'm hurting...but he just rolled over and went to sleep. When I asked him if ignoring me will make the problem disappear, he said "I have to sleep-I have work tomorrow so just leave me to sleep"
So now I must lie here thinking of what I've just found out and feel even more pathetic? Oh my goodness my heart is so sore what kind of relationship is this