Hi Ladies!!
So almost all our babies are a year old now. Little Sarah is the last one and its her turn this weekend!!!!
What is everyone's news? Who will be TTC again soon?? We plan to only start next year. However when I think that next year is in 7 months....that seems too soon!!!!!!!! So we'll see. Ideally we'd like a 3 year ago gap between the kids but maybe another 6 months won't do any harm. Matthieu is still very babyish. He does NOT want to walk. He can...but he doesnt like it. so he crawls furiously everywhere and only takes some steps here and there if he feels like it (which is not that often...)
He still says nothing! Just baby babble. When he sees a picture of a lion he does his version of a roar and when he sees a dog he goes "mm mm" instead of woof woof. he basically speaks in "mmmm's" so when he responds to you or wants something, its always mmm, just in different tones or amounts. No is obviously uh uh. but in a mm tone
I am embarking on a very serious weightloss journey. I have gained even more weight and now have 12kg to lose. I began the diet last Saturday and it is very very difficult. Especially since you dont see results instantly I feel like I'm wasting my time but I cant go back now because I have signed up to a program and it cost a lot of money so I have to stick with it. Apparently I only need to do it for 9 weeks. Doesnt sound too bad until you're doing it!! Cant believe not even 1 week has passed yet!! Its basically meals that are all in packets and you mix with water and microwave. there are soups, shakes, puddings, 'soft serves', mince type food (remember it all starts as a powder though

) eggs, pancakes, oatmeal etc. I have tried a few and unfortunately on the first day I clearly tried all the wrong ones! The oatmeal was revoluting, the protein bar was way too sweat. So I went and exchanged it. The soups tend to be better. They have a very yummy creamy brocolli one. So I eat one of those meals every 2-3 hours and then my 6th meal must be home made and its restricted to so many grams of protein and vege.
I really hope the next 8 weeks fly by because this is the pits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Otherwise Matthieu has an ear infection and after 10 days on antibiotics it never got better so we start the next round of antibiotics today. Hope this cures it now. He has 12 teeth (all molars, 4 front on top and on bottom). He is now cutting all 4 eye teeth so its just never ending and I am sure its causing the ear problems.
Things with dh are ok. He's still working a lot and matt keeping me very busy so both of us are very tired in the evenings and on weekends. But we are getting along well lately which is nice. dtd is non existent. We have to really make an effort to do it but for now neither of us really cares anyway

We are going to France for a couple of weeks at the end of June and hope to have a few days away without Matt so I suppose then we'll have time for intimacy
I wont be coming back to South Africa until end of November. I'm ok with this. I think I have settled being here now.
Oh Matt is awake....chat soon!