Heck Shrew, only 10 days! Can't believe it! You should definitely be calm, because babies can differ so much. Also had the reflux issue with Alexander, and Cherise hardly ever spit up anything. Even the milestones were reached at totally different stages. I struggled with breastfeeding with Alexander (poor suck reflex) and Cherise was a natural. So ya, you can relax. And about coping with 2... I cannot lie to you and say it will be easy, but somehow you will cope. Just involve Mark from day 1, with both kids.
Tazzy, Shrew is getting a little sister for Rowan. How is that for "planning"? (I also got it "right", but no planning involved

). When will you know about the competition? I thought Amelia's face on that pic was just begging for a vote

. Good luck with her being so active. Cherise gave me a heart attack yesterday when she climbed up halfway with the stairs and decided to stand upright. Must say, I didn't see it and just got the fright due to DH's reaction. He was up in a flash and I just heard this commotion. Of course we had the "you should have looked after her" argument after that...