Thanks for all the support ladies. My appointment with midwife is next week so I will definitely be asking her for something. (if I feel I am not coping this week, I will move my appointment up).
Joli - sadly I have tried every position possible for the feeding!!
I even tried walking around with him and trying to latch at the same time as rocking!! He wont even bottle feed unless swaddled. But yes I did try BF swaddled and unswaddled in all the positions possible.
MistyMom so looking forward to your news tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
EmsMom take a pic of Kate smiling

Those are the most precious moments!!
Joli good luck for the appointment tomorrow with all 3 kids.
Hope Matt behaves tomorrow....he was so good today. slept a lot.
We are still doing sleep training...tonight he is in his own room in his cot as DH is back to work tomorrow so cant have Matt disturbing him all night long.
Put him in the cot at 6:15pm and I think I have been up there to settle him about 6 times...it's 8:45pm so he doesnt last very long before needing to be settled again!!! oh well it's the first night of the full routine...
we do bath, lights off only light in passage on. then rub down with a lavendar based baby lotion and then bottle and bed with his 'sleepy sheep' on the ocean noise.
so he's finally been sleeping about 30 minutes solidly and he's due for a feed soon....(9pm). hope he'll rather do a 4 hour stretch and last until 10pm. At least after that feed I hope he settles. going to take him into bed with me after that feed for about 30 minutes to make sure he's in a deep sleep then I'll transfer him to the cot.
He seems to sleep really well if he starts in the bed with us. But if we just hold him until he is sleeping and then put him in the bed, we end up having to pat and rock and shhhh him a lot.