Anyone else trying for a 2014 baby?

Hi everyone,

Just a short note....

I will be taking a break from TTC.
A series of events had led me to remembering very traumatic events from my childhood and I will be going back into therapy and TTC will have to wait until
I have recovered enough to reconsider the whole idea of a second child.

I just wanted to let everyone know that you know what's up.

All the support of everyone here has meant the world to me and I will be keeping all of you regularly in my thoughts. I really wish all the ladies here the best of luck and hope that everyone will be getting their Beeeg Faaaat Positives soon!!! FX!!!

Jay - Sorry to hear!! Hoping for a BFP for this cycle!! FX

Halo ladies, AF showed her face on CD32 which was yesterday, so i was down in the dumps. Rexaling is not easy when everything is just upsetting. Like just now i ask my boss if i can have half day tomorrow to go to tech to go and sort out my things, she said 'NO' we busy it's monthend, hey i know my work i have been here 5 years now, we are never busy this time. These days she's a cow working on my nerves. i won't ask her again.

Flowergirl - That is not cool! The doctor told me that one of the side-effects of clomid is cysts...Although he said is not extremely common. Shame, you really had a horrible cycle! Please let us know what the dr. says!! Thinking of you!

HI Ladies

GW - Emily also keeps asking for her brother. and puts toys and things aside and says its for her brother

AFM - well, where to start......... the bloods came back negative (obviously), then I had an off-site conference so just ignored everything for a while. Gynae called me on Friday to say that since she saw the follies, she knows they were there, so she can only think that they were not released. Her suspicion is that they have now caused cysts - hence the lack of AF. So...... she suggested I wait until this Friday and if still no AF, then I need to come for a scan so she can see whats going on.

Anyway, as it happens, with Sunday morning also came the onset of AF........

So, going to call her later to hear if she wants me to just carry on with another cycle of just the fertomid or what she suggests.............

Major despondence.................

Hi everyone!!

I have also found that the OPK's can be difficult to use. I guess that is why I started charting, not that I know if it really helped, because all it seems to show is that I ovulate on a different day every month. Yes, it is quite costly if you start to add up all the vitamins, OPK's and HPT's!!!

I am also taking strain with the TTC. My LG's constantly asks for a sibling and even plays that she has a little brother or sister. Very painful indeed.

I sense I will have to try and shift gears about this whole TTC thing in my head...I don't really know how, but I will have to relax more...And not talk about it with my husband anymore, this just freaks him out.

Goodluck with the 2WW!!!! FX!!!!!!

Hi – how is everybody today?

I’m officially in the 2ww..I hope. CD16.

I only started testing on CD13 and only got a very faint positive. Hate those things! I should have stuck to the ClearBlue OPK which has never let me down. I wonder what we end up spending on all this stuff at the end of the day – a veritable fortune I’m sure! This TTC is plain stressful and its affecting work, relationships - everything! I envy those who can keep their perspective. I've certainly lost mine.

Edit: just re-read this and realised how negative I sound...must be a blue Monday.