You know, maybe I'm too laid back or a bad mommy or something but it seems I'm the only one that doesn't believe in regular trips to the doc/pead

LO has only been to the pead 2x in his life and once to the doc (he's 2,4 yrs now). The first time he was about 6months and had just had his first bout of runny tummy, the 2nd time it was for his eczema and the last time for an earache. I self medicate most of the time, esp when it comes to colds and coughs. The last doc I went to gave me a list of meds that I can use for such things and that was that. I trust our chemist and so she hasn't let me down. But I also learned a lot from other mommies on PF and have been able to find my way around meds. We've had plenty of coughs, battled eczema and ended figuring out myself what caused it without help from pead, had a few runny tumms and thanks to mommies learned what to do/not do and thanks to google, yes google, found out the danger signs that require a doc's help and 'normal sick signs'.
My first point of call would be doc then pead. The last time I went to a pead was when we almost paid R400 consult for a prescription of R10 allergex! Even though my med aid option doesn't require we use Prime Cure clinics I figured they are best for normal ailments that don't require specialists. They charge R225 inclusive of consult and meds AND note to employer for sick leave which mind you my gynae wouldn't give even when you are about to deliver

Too many doctors do guess work and at the end of the day you are still stuck with a sick baby and no money anymore. But my child is in fairly good health thank God, I know other mommies don't have the option of letting an ailment run its course as it may be too detrimental for their kids. But only you know what's best for your kids.