Marijke,I gave Tristen banana &rice cereal mixed with stewed apple.The enjoyed the banana which he ate by himself,but when I gave him the cereal he pulled faces and kept it just behind his gums,then pushed it out.The next day I gave him avo slices and mxed some with cereal.He swallowed some.But thè following days he didnt swallow anything just kept the food in his mouth and pushed it all out when the nxt lot came in.I gave him a drumstick on sat,he just sucked it and when it fell apart a big piece was blocking his airway.Het so groot geskrik!...How do u get them to swallow food?Do they learn as the get along?I feed him a few tsps of mashed veggies then let him have the bowl,he shoves his hand into it then sucks it off his fingers.My mum says that he cant feed himself how else is it gona get into his tummy.Others say i must let him starve then hell eat his food.I dont do either.Should I just continue with 'our' way of doing things and not involve them?