Hi there ladies,
After losing my loooong post the other day I was a bit disheartened, here I go again!! This time I'll make sure to copy the text before I submit...just in case.
Let's start to try to get a date for the breakfast, what about Saturday 9 October(or Sunday the 10th - if it would be better for ScribblingAl?, don't know how the rest of you feel about a Sunday morning get together?)
@Claudia_B - I think you were right about the reverse thingy (can't remember what you called it

) as the sleeping problems started when I went back to work and she started having the bottle more in the daytime! My MIL now offers her the bottle more often and persists a bit longer if she doesn't take it all in the day and viola!! - for two nights she has only woken up once now!!!
ScribblingAl, I actually know that she's not ready for solids yet, I just thought as it's either top up with formula or solids I can just as well go straight to solids. I don't have anything against formula AT ALL (I've got a tin ready in the cupboard), I just thought going to solids is sort of like cutting out the middle man

Also, I'm very excited to start playing around with food and seeing her reaction. But I guess it's about her and not my pleasure!! So I'll give it another month or so. I also feel a bit pressured by my mother in law staying with us (2 weeks to go), she started my husband on solids at two months (yes TWO!!!) against medical advice cause she reckoned he was still hungry after feeds and I feel that she thinks it's my own fault that Kara doesn't sleep well as I don't feed her properly...or all of this might just be in my mind...maybe she's not even judging me at all and I'm just being paranoid. But hopefully she's back to sleeping like a baby and all my problems are a thing of the past! Emily is SO cute (with the book and the carrot). Keep the photies coming, they light up my day!
@Bronz. WOW, donating milk, that is a very kind thing to do! I express at work so I know what hard work it is, and how selfish I am about every drop that comes out. I agree with ScribblingAl - Bravo! Greame is such a happy baby, I have to drag every smile out of Kara...what can I do to get her smiling more? LOL..that just sounds ridiculous doesn't it?
Have a nice day!