(sorry, didn't know where else to put this topic!)
There are a few things in our house, rules if you like, that I will never bend on with my child/children:
a) they will never have a computer in their bedroom and that the computer will be in the study/office area;
b) they will not have a television in their bedroom. NEVER EVER!;
c) they will not have a lock on their bedroom door;
d) they will not have a cell phone until they are in high school;
Thats all I can think of right now.
What are yours and feel free to disagree with mine!